Progress reports will be coming out in the next few weeks and many parents are anticipating what their gut has been telling them: My kid is not working to their potential.

If your child is struggling with concepts, completing homework and turning it in, and/or failing quizzes and tests, you need to help them now.

If you can afford it, hire a professional tutor.  They’ll know just what to do to get your kid back on board, and they’ll be in touch with the teachers to make sure that there are no surprises down the road.

If you can’t afford a tutor, don’t give up!  Check your local college or high school to get students to work with your child.  They’re not as reliable and you’ll need to organize the schedule to set up consistent sessions.  Get a list of all missing work and difficult concepts from the teacher and discuss everything you would like them to cover during each session. 

Don’t wait for progress reports to come out.  I know it is a great excuse not to know what’s really happening in the classroom but every day that your kid is failing only makes it that much harder for them to catch up.  And that’s not good for anyone!

Right when all of the SAT prep programs finally have the system down and have tons of materials and tips for improving SAT scores, the College Board announces that the last old SAT will be administered in January 2016.  Insert comical sad trombone sound here.

While the new SAT is supposed to be easier than the old SAT because there is no essay and the vocabulary isn’t as ridiculously difficult (you know, they won’t include 15-letter words that nobody uses today), I still recommend that juniors take the OLD SAT in January.

Here are the pros, cons, and the ACT option:

Benefits of Taking the OLD SAT

1. Nobody knows how to prep for the new SATs
   Every time the College Board, or any testing institution, introduces a new test format, chaos inevitably ensues. They don’t have millions of students — their guinea pigs —  to test questions/problems before subjecting students to problem sets for the real SATs. Then test prep companies don’t fully understand how to prepare students to ace the new test and there aren’t enough practice tests available during the first year. 
2. Colleges will accept both the old and the new SATs, so why not take both?
   If the old test is better for you because you can take advantage of the volumes of test-prep workbooks and programs out there, you can have the advantage of taking the last old SAT. If you don’t do well, gear up for the new SAT and take them in May, June, October, November, or December.

Benefits of Taking the New SAT

• Better for those who like to take risks
  If you’re the type to just wing the SAT and not prepare for it, then take the new SAT.  You won’t notice that there are relatively fewer workbooks because you wouldn’t use them anyway. Right?
• Level Playing Field
  The students who study their vocab and prepare to take the SAT for years, won’t have their usual advantage over you.  They’ll be just as unfamiliar with the test as you are, which actually levels the playing field!

What About the ACT?

Check to see if the ACT is a better test for you to take.  If you’re lucky, the ACT will be the better test for you and you won’t be subject to stress (see above) when it comes to preparing for the new SAT.

No matter what you decide to take, you really need to make that decision now.  Weigh the pros and cons, and then pull out your planner and start prepping!

Having lived most of my life in Malibu and Santa Cruz, I’ve never felt like I actually needed air conditioning. Until now, that is.

You would think that beach communities wouldn’t need AC but as our climate is changing, so are what we used to consider “normal” weather patterns. I wasn’t planning on using this as a CLIMATE CHANGE platform, but here we are; it’s hotter here than it’s ever been, and I need a cooling solution!

I’m researching geothermal heating and cooling systems because it makes so much sense.  For example, did you know that the earth always stays at a constant 50-55 degrees both during the summer AND the winter? By running tubing under your house or yard with geothermal heat pumps, you can provide pollution-free heat and air conditioning year round:

Experts claim that you can save up to 80% on your heat and AC bills. So why isn’t everyone doing this? I’ll keep you posted as I explore this option for my home. 

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With all of the online programs and handy dandy college planning manuals, you would think that someone would have found a good way to organize all of the college applications that seniors need to manage each year. But, nooooo! When there is more than one place to keep all of your records, you’re bound to lose things and not have what you need when you need them most!

So here’s how I organize my students’ applications. I create a manila file folder for each college. Yup, back to basics. Bonus: manila folders are super cheap!  On the cover, I staple an information sheet that includes the contact info, deadlines, requirements, essays, letters of recommendation, and portfolio or audition info. That way, I can see at a glance what’s been done and what’s missing.  Then, inside the folder, I keep copies of everything. That’s right. I keep all of their drafts for their essays, cover letters for recommendations, and pertinent information about the college. 

When the students get emails or letters from the college, I also place them in the folder so we have EVERYTHING in one place.  That’s the key… everything is there so we can make decisions based on all of the facts.  Students get lost when they have some info buried in their emails, on their computers, in a drawer in their desk at home, and somewhere in their brains.

Simplify the process by streamlining it back to a good manila file. An organized system makes the college application process less stressful. And all seniors could use a little less stress. 

Did you know that the beehive design has been the same since, well, forever?

We installed 2 beehives earlier this year and they’re doing really well. 

The honeycombs are filled with honey and the bees are happy, but they’re the “old school” design.

Our cutting-edge friend Julie just ordered 2 of these new beehives with a brilliant design – you can separate the honeycombs mechanically so the honey just pours down and out to a spout! 

Imagine that – it’s like getting maple syrup but with a hive instead of a tree! 

We’re expecting our shipment in 2 months; can’t wait!

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Our kids have been in school for just about a month now, and things are just peachy. Right? The teachers haven’t burned out yet, and our kids are happily doing “review” work in all of their classes. Yup.

So if you’re like most parents, you’re ASSUMING that your kid is doing all of his work, turning everything in, and doing well. Right?

WRONG!

This is where parents miss the mark. Most parents wait until their kids’ receive their first progress reports to assess how they’re really doing in school.  Even those lucky parents who have online homework programs like School Loop or  Infinite Campus often don’t check to see how their kids are doing until they get some sort of notification that things aren’t going well. Waiting until you get your 6-week progress report is too late.  Here’s why:

Teachers gather homework, quiz and test scores, projects, and participation points at the end of 6 weeks. Then they take a few days to calculate each student’s grade.  Next, the registrar takes that information and enters it in computer and generates paper progress reports that then need to be mailed to each family. This process adds another week or two, so we’re really looking at 7 or 8 weeks of oblivion or denial on everyone’s part.  If your child has a D or F in a class at 8 weeks, it’s almost impossible to raise that to an A by the end of the semester. The sooner you know your child needs help, the better chance he has to regaining confidence in the subject area and catching up.

When you approach your kid about his grades, you’ll inevitably hear excuses that leave you confused about the grades you see on the progress report. Every child will tell you that the teacher hasn’t entered in the grades for his make-up assignment or test, and that’s why his grades look so terrible. Even if you are checking School Loop online and find missing assignments, you’ll hear the same excuses.

So what’s a parent to do?

Review your child’s status on homework, quizzes and tests, and projects once a week. That’s right. Understand what is going on in each class so you can discuss how your kid is doing on individual assignments and studying for tests. Don’t ask how school is because you’ll get the canned response: “Fine.” Instead, ask questions like these:

English:

1. What book are you reading for English? 
2. Tell me about it?
3. Will you have to write a response paper or summary?
4. When will that be due?
5. What vocabulary do you need memorize?
6. Have you made flashcards yet?
7. When will the vocab test be?

Math:

1. What new concepts did your teach introduce today?
2. What homework is due tomorrow (or the day after)?
3. When is the test on this chapter?
4. How do you plan to prepare for this?

History:

1. What did you learn today?
2. Did you watch any videos?  Which ones?
3. What homework is due tomorrow (or the day after)?
4. When will your next test be and what will it cover?
5. How are you going to study for it?

Science:

1. What concepts did you learn today?
2. Did you do a lab? Tell me about it.
3. What homework is due tomorrow (or the day after)?
4. When will your next test be and what will it cover?
5. How are you going to study for it?

Language:

1. What concepts did you learn today?
2. What vocabulary and verb conjugations do you need memorize?
3. Have you made flashcards yet?
4. When will the vocab and grammar test be?
5. What homework is due tomorrow (or the day after)?
6. When will your next test be and what will it cover?
7. How are you going to study for it?

By asking these types of questions, you’ll engage with your child and learn more about what they need to do each day. They’ll also be more inclined to get work turned in and study more.  Make your child accountable for doing well in all of their classes by paying attention, NOW!

If you’re one of those people who get angry when Christmas music and decorations flood the airways and store aisles before Thanksgiving, you’re absolutely going to hate this idea. 

But, if you’re also one of those people who spend way too much money on holiday gifts because you can’t decide what to buy everyone, keep reading. Between my husband’s huge family and my extended family, we have over 75 people to consider for gift giving.  We tried skipping gifts one year — and that wasn’t received very well… So 20 years ago, we found a creative solution: We made little homemade gifts to share with our family and friends. Everyone enjoys receiving them and they don’t break the bank!

One of our favorite gifts has been our homemade chapstick (or lip balm). They’re really easy to make and they only cost about 20 cents each! We’ve made peppermint and vanilla flavors using bees wax and coconut oil. I printed up custom labels with everyone’s names and a list of ingredients.  Who doesn’t want a custom chapstick during the winter months? 

Check out this website to learn how to make chapstick: http://wellnessmama.com/7055/homemade-lip-chap-recipe/

I got all of our supplies at http://www.bulkapothecary.com/categories/containers/lip-balm-tubes-jars-and-tins/. You can buy the lip balm tubes and all of the ingredients you need.  I also bought the lip balm filling trays — they’re only $6.95 and it makes it so much easier to fill the tubes. 

Get the family to make chapstick for their friends, and you’ll all have a blast making them.  It’s quick and easy!

President Obama just announced a new college information site that includes all 7,000 colleges in the United States. While this new site system falls short of his original plan to rank and shame low-rated schools that often leave students with huge debt and poor earning potential, it does offer several valuable tools that can help students make smart decisions about the colleges they’re applying to this season. 

It’s an easy-to-use site that allows you to compare tuition costs, graduation rates, and salaries after graduation.  These are key considerations when making these important decisions.  In other words, don’t choose colleges based on their clever marketing, beautiful landscapes, and successful sports teams!  Instead, think of more practical things, like:  What will my earning potential be upon my graduation and what type of debt will I be saddled with?

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Now that you’ve started the college applications process, let’s just throw one more variable into the mix: When should you apply to each college?  Sorry! Generally speaking for most students, you’ll probably want to apply during the regular admissions cycle.  Here are a few tips.

EARLY DECISION (ED)
Because Early Decision is binding — meaning that if you get accepted you have to enroll — only choose this if you are 100% sure that you want to go to this college.  By putting all of your eggs in one basket, and the colleges know that, you’re probably not going to get the best financial aid packages they offer.  After all, the colleges know that you’re definitely going to enroll so they’ll be saving those sweet scholarships and grants to entice other students who they need to win over. One of the benefits, however, is that you will have a decision before New Years!

EARLY ACTION (EA)
The Early Action pool of applicants are generally are stronger (more competition) group of students than Regular Decision applicants, so even though there may be a slight advantage to applying early, unless you are off-the-charts strong, this probably isn’t something you need to do.  Afterall, just having the 2 extra months to work on your essays and improve your complete applications may be a wiser decision anyhow. One of the benefits is that you’ll have a decision before New Years and you don’t have to decide until May 1st! That way, you can compare financial aid packages.

REGULAR DECISION (RD)
Most students apply Regular Decision because the application deadlines range from November until March.  This gives you plenty of time to write those essays, visit the colleges, and receive decisions from other colleges. You’ll have until May 1st to make your decision.

ROLLING ADMISSIONS
This may come as a surprise to you but not all colleges have 5% acceptance rates. Yup. With over 4,000 colleges and universities in America, there are lots of colleges that don’t fill up.  They don’t set application deadlines because they want to accept students until they fill their class each year. So, if you get in a pickle, you can always apply to a college that has rolling admissions after the March deadlines for selective colleges. Phew! Not to worry; there’s a college out there for everyone!

What do you think about kids getting black belts? 

My father had a black belt in judo, and he was a judo instructor when I was young.  I remember his students training for years just to advance one belt, and some were good enough to reach a brown belt by the time they graduated from high school. 

Black belts were reserved for the best — those who studied the art as a profession.

The youngest black belt in Great Britain is an 8-year old boy from England. Although he is adorable and has good form, he certainly doesn’t have the discipline, strength, or conceptual knowledge that a black belt represents.  When children can reach the ultimate goal — a black belt — by age eight, what could they possibly strive to achieve beyond that?

And, what does it mean to older teens who are working towards their black belt but have only earned a brown belt?  Does anyone really believe that this 8-year old boy could beat a 17-year old brown belt?

Let’s be real here. Sounds like American and European martial arts has become a victim of helicopter parenting…  Shouldn’t students win their belts because they have truly earned them through hard work, practice, and discipline? Besides, I hope these students don’t get hurt because they incorrectly think they have mastered the art of self defense.